Singles events can vary widely depending on the organiser. The majority of our events take place in the evening at hand-picked bars and are a casual and relaxed mingle.
Lots of singles under one roof
We put a lot of time and effort into promoting our events across various channels to attract as many new singles at each event as possible. And we’re proud to share that at most events we get 70% new faces – which is HUGE!
There’s no substitute for meeting people out and about in real life – and knowing everyone around you is single takes lots of pressure off.
All you have to do is book your ticket, choose your outfit, and turn up at the venue.
Our events are currently aimed at heterosexual singles and mixed-age (at the time of writing this – October 2023).
We try our hardest to achieve a 50/50 mix of ladies and gents, but can not always guarantee this.
Warm welcome from your hosts
We have a great team of hosts who are always excited to welcome you to Single & Mingle.
Upon arrival, you will be:
- Greeted by your host/s
- Checked-in (you don't need to print your ticket)
- Introduced to the (optional) ice-breaker activity
- Asked to wear a sticker (first name and first letter of your surname)
Our hosts will be around during the event to ensure you’re having a good time. And if you need them for anything, they’re very happy to help – just ask!
Ice-breakers
Our fun and relaxed singles events feature an optional ice-breaker that helps to get people talking. You’ll be introduced to this when you arrive at the event and then it’s up to you whether you take part or not. There’s no forced fun at Single & Mingle, you know!
Ice-breakers we’ve done in the past include:
- Singles bingo
- Would you rather
- Match the song to the artist
- Find the person with the matching sock
Games
You can’t beat a good old fashioned game, can you!
At most event you’ll find a game or two knocking about to help get people mingling and engaging with one another.
Games at previous events include:
- Twister (this didn't go down well so we stopped it, haha!
- Jenga!
- Connect 4
- Quiz cards
Will you show your competitive side?
Conversation starters
Scattered around the room you’ll find lots of Single & Mingle Conversation Starters – little cards, each with a question on that you can ask the person or people next to you.
They’re a great way to ease your way into the event and get chatting to folk.
Here are a few examples:
- If you could be any animal, what would you be, and why?
- What's your idea of the perfect first date?
- Where would you love to travel next?
- Do you have any tattoos?
You get the idea.
The occasional ding ding
Every so often, we sound a bell. This is used as a prompt to get you mingling.
The bell is designed to:
- Encourage you to talk to as many people as possible
- Come out of a conversation you no longer want to be in
- Stop people from hogging people
- Move on to others without feeling awkward
You get the idea.
Safe environment
We promote safe-dating and want people to feel at ease before, during, and after a singles event.
If you feel unsafe or vulnerable at any point, come and find a host, or go to the bar and Ask For Angela.
Connection request service
After each event, you’ll receive a follow-up email inviting you to submit a connection request.
So if you met someone you liked, but didn’t get their details, this is your chance to allow us to try and connect you, on your behalf.
All you need to do is complete a quick form giving your name, a short message to the lucky person, and the contact details you’d like us to share, and we’ll pass on your request via email.
It’s worth pointing out that we don’t chase requests. Once we’ve sent your request, it’s up to the recipient to get back to you. If you don’t get a response, please don’t be offended – it just means they’ve either not picked up your email, or they don’t know how to say no.
Please remember that if you receive a request and reply to them, they have your details.
Have a question?
If there’s anything you’re unsure of, you’re very welcome to get in touch.
